They say it takes two to build and start a relationship, to get together and get married. However, it only takes one to break a relationship and to get a divorce. That's a harsh reality. Why do couples always hurt each other towards the end of a relationship? Why can't they accept each other as they do in the first place?

In this drama I watched recently, This couple has been together for ten years. In fact, they have been married for ten years and work at the same law firm. The husband loves his wife dearly, and is willing to sacrifice everything for her. He is a typical super nice guy, faithful, who has a stable career as a lawyer and is considerate to everyone. Sounds like a dream husband right? Apparently, his wife doesnt think so. His wife thinks that he is not ambitious enough and often chids him for letting people take advantage of him. Of course, he knows what is happening, but he just wants everyone to be happy.

His wife then had an affair with another person, who happens to be in the same company as them. He was devastated when he found out. However, he loves her so much that he is willing to make up with her. His wife, on the verge of making up with him, then received a stack of discriminating photos of her husband and his client together. Despite her husband repeated pleas for innocence, his wife chose not to trust him and puts all the blame on him instead for the way things turned out, including her own affair and wanted a divorce.

Needless to say, her husband was heartbroken. He then did something which I thought was proof of how much he loved her. Knowing that a divorce would mean 3 years of separation first unless there was proof that either party had committed adultery, he admitted that he committed adultery although he was innocent and his wife wasn't. In that way, he could 'let her go' as he knew that such an ending is unavoidable. He wanted her to be happy at his expense.

It's sad that a marriage had to end this way. Maybe this might explain why he chose to let her go eventually.

'If something you have kept makes you unhappy, its something that won't help you much. On the same note, if it's something that you won't forget, it isn't a big deal whether it's in your posession or not'.

As extracted from Kenny's blog - 'Been on hiatus mode for quite some time. I decided I should update my blog a little.'(I noticed cobwebs on his blog since his last entry).

Anyway, I wanted to just post up pictures of what I have been doing for the past few weeks, but SOME people still refused to send me the photos. It was my fault too I guess. Haven't been going online for quite some time.

Recently, there have been some changes in my life. My schedule is packed like sardines and it is getting tiring to say the least. But well, you reap what you sow. Hopefully, things will change for the better. There was also some internal shuffling at work, and I realized that changing of environment isn't as easy as I thought.

My project deadline was last week. As predicted, I procrastinated until the last minute, and had to churn out my report in 2 days. However, in the midst of doing my work, I also took photos with 3 adorable kids. (But Shebs has not sent me)

But I had fun after that, going out with Susan and Bernard for KTV after almost 2 weeks without singing. Haha. We took a lot of pictures (but Bernard/Susan has not sent me) and we went berserk that night.

On Saturday, Kenny, Serene and I went to John's house as he wanted to repaint his room. It has been a long time since I helped anyone to paint and painting wasn't exactly on my mind that day. I wanted to go sun-tanning or play a few rounds of mahjong. But nevertheless, we continued with JOHN'S initial plan. He painted his ceiling blue and the walls yellow. It turned out to be quite fun and we took some stupid photos. (Which John has not sent me) Oh. Did I mention that we played mahjong after that?

I was on duty on Sunday. It was hectic, chaotic and lunatic. I worked non-stop from 9am, slept at 4am the next day, woke up at 7am and went home only at 9pm on Monday. Phew. It has been a long time since I toiled my socks off.

As I finally earned my well-deserved break yesterday, I went out with John, Shebs, Mavis and Jovi for table tennis which I picked up recently and took a few photos. (Which John has not sent me)

So now you all know who owes me photos. I guess I will probably be busy this few weeks as well with exams approaching. So long people..